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How to find Swinger Events/Clubs near you

✨Disclaimer✨ all the websites and information provided is for US based clubs and events only, for those outside of the US I'm sorry I can't help more✨


The most frequently asked question in a my inboxes is 'How do I find swinger events/clubs near me' so I figured I'd give you a comprehensive guide to help you navigate your swinging experiences.

Finding swinger events near you can be an exciting and liberating experience. It can also be a difficult feat especially for those living in more rural areas. No, there are most likely not any swinger events in Decorah,Iowa, but you can always plan to travel to places where there are swinger events/clubs. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just looking to dip your toes into the lifestyle, here's a comprehensive guide to help you find swinger events in your area. Many people message me and ask if I know of events in specific areas, no I do not, I travel a lot to swing and even review tons of clubs on my podcast but I am not the person to ask where clubs in California, or Washington State are, so hopefully this guide will help you.




If you're looking to find clubs and events near you I would start online. There are tons of growing online swinger communities, some are free and some are paid. Joining online swinger communities is a great way to connect with like-minded individuals and stay updated on swinger events near you. Websites and forums such as SwingLifestyle, Kasidie, and SDC offer event listings, forums, and chat rooms where members can discuss upcoming events and share recommendations. Finding local swingers at Applebees is almost impossible. I've listed the top 10 swinger websites.


Top 10 Swinger Sites:

  1. Swinglifestyle(SLS)-Best adult personals for posting ads about swinging, also has a comprehensive list of events. https://www.swinglifestyle.com/

  2. SDC– Best free site for finding swinging events https://www.sdc.com

  3. 3 fun-A tinder like app that I personally love to connect with other swingers. They sponsor my podcast and I've had a great relationship with them over the years. Plus I've found lots of success using them. https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098

  4. Kasidie– Best social community for adventurous swinging couples https://www.kasidie.com/?referredby=SexySwingerChic

  5. Fetlife – Top swingers who are into fetishes https://fetlife.com

  6. Feeld-A great website to find local swingers https://feeld.co

  7. # open-a non monogamous dating app that has a thriving swinging community. https://hashtagopen.com

  8. AdultFriendFinder- Finding other swingers is pretty easy on here. https://adultfriendfinder.com/

  9. Reddit R4R- Reddit can be difficult to navigate but it's totally worth it once you figure it out. https://www.reddit.com/r/swingersr4r/s/yPf0NFKbDR

  10. Swinger Society- owned by my good friends there's tons of hot swingers to connect with on here




Social media groups

This can be a tough one since many swingers are still in the swinger closet. I'd recommend making a separate swinger profile to navigate swinging and social media. Many swinger groups and clubs have a presence on social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter. Search for local swinger groups or events in your area, and join their groups or follow their pages to get notified about upcoming events and parties. Most event organizers promote their events through social media, making it a valuable resource for finding swinger events.

The Swinger Society also has their own Discord and Facebook group. If you go to my website you can get the invite links to the Discord. https://sexyswingerchic.net



Local Swinger Clubs and Venues

Research swinger clubs and venues in your area. Literally type into google 'Swinger club near [insert closest BIG city to you].Many cities have dedicated swinger clubs that host regular events, parties, and social gatherings. Check their websites or contact them directly to inquire about upcoming events and membership requirements. Attending events at established swinger clubs can provide a safe and comfortable environment for exploring the swinger lifestyle. I grabbed a list of all the swinger clubs in the US state by state thanks to the wonderful and lovely 4OURPLAY Blog. https://4ourplayblog.com/swinger-clubs-usa/


If you don't see your local club on the list make sure you let me know and I can add it to the list, this list was updated 2 years ago so it may be missing a few clubs.


Alabama

Arizona

California

Colorado

Connecticut

Delaware

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Florida

Georgia

Hawaii

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Idaho

Illinois

Indiana

Iowa

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Louisiana

Maine

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Maryland

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Michigan

Minnesota

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Montana

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Nevada

New Hampshire

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New Jersey

New Mexico

New York

North Carolina

North Dakota

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Ohio

Oklahoma

Oregon

Pennsylvania

Rhode Island

South Carolina

South Dakota

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Tennessee

Texas

Utah

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Vermont

Virginia

Washington

West Virginia

Wisconsin

Wyoming

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Networking with Local Swingers

Networking with local swingers is a valuable way to access insider information about upcoming events. Attend local meetups, mixers, or social events geared towards the swinger community. By connecting with other swingers in your area, you can gain access to private parties, group events, and informal gatherings that may not be publicly advertised. We've learned about a lot of hotel takeovers this way.


Traveling to resorts or Hotel Takeovers

I've said it before and I'll say it again, swinging can be expensive. Many couples/singles are traveling to swinger destinations to enjoy their adventures together. There are events hosted around the country at various hotels, resorts, and clubs. Like Naughty in Nawlins, Secrets Hideway and there are even Swinger cruises. Much like business conventions, a lot of planning and promoting goes into these organized parties.


What do you do now?

With all this information now is the time to start researching what you want to do and how you want to navigate your swinger experience. I've given you all the tools now it's time to make like a butterfly and spread your wings and fly, then you can of course start spreading your legs, or cheeks, or mouth or whatever you want to spread. Happy Swinging, and don't do anything I wouldn't do(it's anal I wouldn't do or won't do anal).



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